Sunday, December 30, 2012

Just Be Love

Its new years eve in 2012.....the world was due to end 24 days ago.....or was it 11 days ago....12 days ago???..... maybe it will end later.....whatever the outcome the point is the massive irrelevance of when the world will end. The largest majority of us here have no cast iron underground safety cave to dash to should the ground burst open or a tidal wave unleash its force on us, if the sky should fall in or a comet fire its might out of the sky and shake the earth to smithereens.....what will be will be...and we have absolutely no control over what happens.

Which brings me to my point of this conveniently placed entry, today on the eve of a brand new year in a time where we are no longer bound by the Mayan calendar and a brutal 5000 year history that saw the human race rape and pillage each other and the earth we dwell in....in a time when I feel we are finally free to create a new truth, a new collective consciousness to bury our feet in and feed our souls.....here we begin again.

There are times you get exactly what you want, there are times you don't get what you want....and sometimes....there are times you get what you never expected, of these three things you have absolutely no control. Some would call it God....others coincidence, fate, hard work, magick...whatever it is what is meant to be will find a way and in that 'truth' NOTHING should ever be taken for granted. There is more than likely a shelf life on most experiences in life and this ridiculous concept that we have that we will 'take care of it tomorrow' has us missing the magick of what is now and the gift it has to grace us with.

Nothing lasts forever, except love. Love is the one thing that is eternal and not even death will dim the light that it brings to a human soul. But experience, relationships, people, and life....ebbs and flows like the tide of the sea and we have no choice but to ebb and flow with it and immerse ourselves wholeheartedly in every opportunity that comes our way. 

So if you were to make one new years resolution this year...one to carry with you till your last breath...let it be one that grants yourself the freedom to 'LET GO' stop judging, stop worrying, stop fighting the current of what will be and just throw yourself into the ocean and BE.....Be you....Be free....JUST BE LOVE....



                                                   ...............and see the stardust that life will bring you......

Happiest of New Years to you all and the very best of Earthen Fae blessings to you all in the amazing new year we have been blessed with.

<3 <3 <3 I LOVE YOU  <3 <3 <3 


EarthyFae


Friday, November 23, 2012

Laughter is the best medicine....


HO HO HAHAHA HO HO HAHAHA!!!

.....and so my attention has been brought to the subject of LAUGHTER! Over the last few years bursting more and more into the children's entertainment industry I have developed an ability to, without hesitation, be absolutely ridiculous......and have an immensely WONDERFUL time doing so!!! Little by little my soul has slowly opened to life, the judgments that I have bestowed so harshly upon myself and on others have flown with the wind and the acceptance of life and all its ups and downs has become a lot easier to move with. Well how pleasure filled to find that there is actually an epidemic of the heavenly healing sport....meditation.....social exercise .... of 'LAUGHTER YOGA' running rampant through this world, and how utterly thrilled I was to find that all its facilitators are able to back me up on the indescribable healing abilities of silliness, play and laughter.

Recently getting a VIP view of a Laughter Yoga information DVD done by Perths 'Angel Kimmy' and her super sidekick (and my soul sister) Olimpia on Laughter Yoga with a group of disabled people I discovered that there is absolutely no denial of the benefits of this fun filled behavior and side splitting cackles, Usually wheel chair bound young men and women were dancing and smiling, previously withdrawn and self conscious souls were open and laughing, completely in love with the experience to BE FREE! 

I am blessed to have a wonderful almost 7 year old child that pulls me into 'the now' daily with behavior that forces me to drop the remote and turn away from the demise of the 6 o'clock news and laugh hysterically as a tower of Jenga blocks explodes on the floor. I am blessed to work in a job that requires me to be ridiculous and express myself......but for those of you that don't have a release I would highly recommend locating a Laughter Yoga Club near you and going along for a session, if you don't like it you can walk away and move on....if you do like it......which I KNOW YOU WILL.....you will spread happiness like a 2 year old spreads Vegemite on the table top and shout it like a euphoric drunk.

Laughter Yoga was first founded by an Indian Doctor from Mumbai in 1995 when he started the first laughter club. Laughter clubs have now grown worldwide to around 60 countries and growing ever more. The concept is not only the release of judgement, pulling you out of the stresses of the day by stepping into a bit of nonsense but a sneaky Yogic technique at getting you to breathe!!!! When you laugh....you BREATH, you release air that is held within and the oxygen flow to the brain and body releases tension, aids the brain in releasing all the good stuff into the body to relax you and as a result the health benefits are UNBELIEVABLE! For those of you that are built like me......unable to sit still for more that 30 seconds without huffing and stomping off to do dishes or climb trees......this is meditation FOR YOU! 

So what happens at laughter yoga? Well you play games....and laugh....you sing songs......then laugh.....you breathe.....then LAUGH and then sometimes you sit in a circle with complete strangers.....and then LAUGH till it hurts your sides....the laughter comes from nothing, 'fake it till you make it' they say and literally force yourself to make laughing noises....but after a few ridiculous faces, one good snort and a bit of silly behavior the laughter flows freely and your group of strangers become like family and friends. IT IS FUN!

For me its the concept of dealing with emotion in a way that I can understand. I am such a feeler, and working in the healing and arts/performance industry as I do, I feel like sometimes I have fine tuned and rather intense emotions for such a little woman, I require a lot of outlets. I write, I make music, I dance, I perform and still there are days when I feel overwhelmed by the pressure of my existence and the responsibility I hold in being who I am, i watch 'Legend of the Fall' and cry into a packet of Macro Organic Cheezles over nothing in particular.......but graced with 'The Indian Ocean Laughter Club' at my door step each Tuesday at 6pm I finally have a new outlet that's not full of palm oil! After the first session I was on an absolute high....that slowly panned out into such a relaxed state that I slept WITHOUT WAKING UP ONCE TO WRITE POETRY OR PEE!!!!! 

Since the first session I am already finding my way with laughter as a means of dealing with so many situations. The facilitator of the Club Peter, even shared a story of how he hated traffic so much he decided to laugh while he was stuck on a gridlocked highway. Just the thought of it alone sent me into fits of giggles and I have taken inspiration from this and laughed my way through many a sticky situation. It really does fix EVERYTHING!

So jump on board the laughter train my pretties....come into the light......flail your limbs into stupidity and when all else fails........LAUGH!!!!!!!!!

https://www.facebook.com/IndianOceanLaughterClub

Lots of fluff EarthyFae :)

Monday, September 17, 2012

The Invitation.....

 
Love......how I love to connect deeply with the people in my life.....how i yearn for a deeper connection with someone that is not afraid to stand with me in the wild and dance without fear. Of late it seems I have been confronted by many situations that had me reeling through grief and anger...feeling lost and alone.......but then in the chaos a candle shone upon a life lesson I learned long ago.....and I was illuminated by love for how far I have come. It all began with reading 'The Invitation - By Oriah' many years ago. 

For so long I skimmed the surface of my heart, denying beautiful and very deep loving aspects of myself and living a life that ate away at my soul. Existing in relationships that made me feel safe, working in jobs that paid my bills, ignoring the creativity within my heart and plodding through days...weeks....months....without stopping to look inside my heart and soul and connect with myself, let alone the world around me.........Finally, race came in the form a this little poem, in a moment of complete and utter grief and despair I saw light.....and so I moved to break free and accept the invitation, to seek a life that was deeper and more meaningful, to live a more inspired existence by stripping off the layers I put to the world and baring my soul, to finally relinquish my cares of judgement and just BE who I am....and all the while knowing that by doing this I was manifesting and attracting situations and people that would help my soul sing its song forever more. THIS was the best decision I ever made and even through the most trying times in life....I am reminded constantly of how amazing it is to be FULLY PRESENT in my life...in all situations - both good and bad....its all life....its all part of a deeper connection that we all share to smile, hurt, scream, dance and dream..... but to experience it fully...to strip back the layers and really share this life with those around you.....this is the key to being aware and living life in an open existence. In the beautiful words of Bob Marley - WAKE UP AND LIVE!!!!!

And so my gift to you this day.....is an invitation........


-The Invitation-
© 1995 by Oriah
 
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dreams
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your
fingers and toes
without cautioning us to
be careful
be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand on the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
"Yes."

It doesn't interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after a night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the center of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.



.....and I can answer "YES" to everything :)

 
Love always EarthyFae xxxx

 
 
 
 

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Ben Okri and the most amazing quote in the world.....

This was sent to me in an email by a dear friend and I was so moved by its beauty. Its just so beautiful and inspiring I had to share it.....


Believe in the fundamental equality of humanity. Link hands with your brothers and sisters across the globe. Link hands with the poor and the disadvantaged and the rich. Don’t look down at anyone and don’t look up at anyone either. You are not better than the poor, nor inferior to the rich. The heritage of the earth is for all of us. Make this world one world, its riches and possibilities available to all.

Do not think for one moment that you are small, that you are powerless, that you have nothing to give, or that you are alone. I have not met a powerless person. You are only small and powerless if you think only of yourself, if you are selfish. The moment you think of humanity, of service to humanity, then you become powerful.

The heart is bigger than the earth. There are few things more noble in this life than serving humanity. If you ever suffer from crises of confidence, from doubt, from fear, from suicidal impulses, from loneliness, from existential despair, that is often because you are living only for yourself, your career, your dreams, your ego, your race, your family, clan or class. But the moment you think of humanity, all humanity, then your own problems become smaller, and then disappear.

We are here on earth to serve humanity, to take the human possibility forward, to create a better world. We are here to grow, to learn, to share our light, our gifts, our love.
There are people who are prepared to die for their limited racial and religious causes. They are a negative inspiration. You should be prepared to be the most wonderful person you are capable of being, and for the best causes, which are the enrichment of humanity, the promotion of equal rights for all, the provision of education, food and good life for the poor and wretched of the earth. This is a greater way to live than even laying down your life for your brother, sister, or your country.

Use all the intelligence, passion, fun, joy, and the blessings of your life to help make the life of all humanity sweeter, and you will not have to worry unduly about the state of your soul or about the meaning of life. If you do this alone, especially in this part of your life when you are young and free, if you give what’s good in you to raising higher the human story as best you can, then your life will be justified, and you will have transcended failure or success.
Open your hearts and minds to the beauties and possibilities of being human. Do not see people’s colour first. Do not see people in their material conditions first. We don’t know who or what a human being really is. Believe me, we are each one a great mystery. The person who dwells in great misery, in the gutter, alone, may well be an angel. The way you judge others––a person or a continent––judges you. And this judgement will bring you either the good or the evil you deserve.

So go out into the world. Transcend all the bullshit that your education, your history, your culture, your class has passed onto you. Learn for yourselves. Find out for yourselves. Question everything. Question the certainties fed you by your mothers and fathers and the great authority figures of your land and your age. Be always a question mark. Seek to know for yourself, so that you may grasp the deeper truths of life with a strong mind. Give of your soul. Feel the life and the suffering and the joys of the world. Feel! Don’t be afraid to feel, or to love, or to fail. So long as you are doing the little best you can to make this ruined world better, you are making good use of the miraculous reality that is your life.

For the rest, have fun. Laugh. Lighten up. Don’t be too serious. Play. Be inspired. Be your true self without being mean to others. And, by God, learn the wonderful art of happiness… How can we enjoy the happiness and growth of others, if we are not happy ourselves? It was Novalis who said: ‘I am you’ – in another form.

Let life inspire you, and teach you always how to be free and to encourage freedom in others, if they so desire.

All of humanity is really one person. What happens to others, affects us. There’s no way out, but up.

Let’s all rise to the beautiful challenges of our age, and rise to our true mysterious luminosity.

~Ben Okri

Sunday, July 29, 2012

Not all who wander are lost.....


Not all who wander are lost….. This is probably one of my favourite sayings by an amazing writer, an author of one of the greatest tales ever known to man ‘The Lord of The Rings’ by JRR Tolkien. It has been a phrase to keep solidarity within me in moments of my life where I have compared my free spirit to the homebound soul, the comfortable housewife or the dedicated career person. At times in life I have stood next to these ‘pillar people’ and felt inferior. Why could I not settle into a career straight out of school, finish university or marry my high school sweet heart? Because I wander about wonder….

I see so many loved ones in my life, like me, thinking they are lost because they cannot ‘settle’, their view is that they need to find a ‘life path’ or a ‘definition of self’ to justify their existence and that somehow it will make them happy….a view point I cannot judge as it is one that I come face to face with over and over in life. But bringing myself to the centre of my heart and realising that maybe….just maybe I AM living my dream by simply being a good friend, a dedicated mother and a committed free spirit….maybe my existence is justified in that alone.

 Seeking personal definition within another person….or a career or a university degree is not a necessity…..who you are is here….now…. in those blank moments of day dream in the afternoon sun, or the goose-bumps of awe you feel when listening to your favourite music, that moment of sleepy clarity that comes in the limbo between awake and asleep….there YOU are…..nothing more and nothing less and why do you need anything more to be happy?

Now this does not suggest you should sit back and do nothing with life - to seek is to stay in touch with the magick in life, to seek is to find beauty, to seek is to discover adventure…..and that is blessed….. and I think sometimes – especially for people like me – to seek leads me to unveil that place of solace within that comes from wandering – I am not lost…..I am not inferior….. I am a gypsy soul in search of the magick in this universe that lights my soul day after day after day.  And so life brings me experience after experience to show me mirrors of myself and time after time I have been freed by the experience of life and the way that it has shown me who I am and how beautiful the colours of my heart do meld into the colours of the universe around me…..I have learnt  to love everyone and everything with the experience of adventure as the wisdom in my stride.

Do not define yourself by anything other than your own heart and soul, your job does not make you a better person – your open heart does, the amount of money in your bank account does not make you rich-your spirit does, your relationship does not make you stable-your connection to the world around you does…..You are what is within…..and the rest is just the costume you wear to the party. So enjoy the show, dance and be merry in your capes and masks but know that the realness of your humanness is within the veils of what you put to the world and it is as beautiful as you wish it to be.

To star gaze…..

To dream….

To sing with my eyes closed and let my voice raise my skin in tingles of light and love….

To wander….and never be lost for I know that I am always where I belong…….within the colours of my own heart…..
EarthyFae
xoxox

Saturday, July 14, 2012

Eco Faerie Community Living Expo

Be there.......
....or be square ;)

The 6 Nyoongar Seasons

 Nyoongar Boodja
This planet is the only planet we have. There have been wondrous stories of the magnificence of science and how one day we may live and exist on another planet; but as time goes by it still remains as it has for thousands of years that this is our home and we must take care of what we have.

A big part of taking care of the planet lies within caring for each other, understanding and respecting people of different cultures, sharing our knowledge of taking care of the planet and most of all creating a community vibe within our society; as we have since the beginning of our existence as humans. Love one another to love the planet - SIMPLE! J

Our tribal history as human beings is varce; every country has a tribal history. What is yours? And what is the tribal history of the land you live on? How are they similar? How do they differ? For me, my bloodline runs back to Wales and the ancient Celts that studied the stars and seasons, planted crops by the moon, built megalithic structures to their deities and celebrated harvests and nature with costumes, stories and fire. Stocks and food were shared, families were united for support and protection and best of all – the earth was happier.

But I was born in Australia. My father was once told by an Aboriginal Elder that ‘the spirit of the land doesn’t see colour, you will feel the land you were born upon sing to you no matter who your father is…’ and I can swear this by my soul. Despite my fascination with my Welsh/Celtic heritage my heart lies fondly within the knowledge, the stories and the song of Aboriginal Culture and the Tribal History of Australia.

Tribal history is something that I think we can all learn from. In a world where we have become mass consumers – is there not something to be learned from our ancestors that barely left a footprint on our blessed home? The people who lived for centuries, in harmony with nature, knowing the planet, its plants and animals, this knowledge lovingly passed down through the generations and without it there was no survival… and maybe in our world today where we seem to have lost touch with our roots and each other there is some peace to be found by turning back to our lineages for guidance.

It is said that Aboriginal people have existed on this land for 60,000 years and I feel it is here that I should note the last ice age was 20,000 years ago and lasted 5,000 years. This super race of human beings lived in such harmony with the land that they survived where most men would perish and their culture stands strong today despite many trials and challenges…..and this we celebrate!

In my local area of South Western Australia the predominant tribe is the ‘Nyoongar’ tribe, within it there are 14 tribes; the closest one to home for us here in Perth is the Swan River (Derbal Yaragan) dwelling people called the ‘Whadjuk’ tribe.

In this beautiful and picturesque region of Australia there are actually 6 seasons in a year!

BunuruFebruary to March – This is a time when it is hot, with dry, easterly and north winds. The people would catch fish, marron and other water dwelling wildlife for food. They would collect fruit and dig up bulbs to grind for spices.

DjeranApril to May – This is a time when it cools down and the winds come in from the south west. The people would continue to fish and begin to gather bulbs and seeds for winter.

MakuruJune to July – This is when seasons turn cold and westerly gales hit! The Nyoongar people would move inland to hunt and warm them by fire and build Miya Miya’s as shelter from the rain and wind. This is actually the wettest part of the year in Nyoongar Region.

DjilbaAugust to September – This is known as the coldest time of the year, the nights are cold but clear and starting to warm as the days creep on. People would continue to gather roots and plants, Emu and Kangaroo was on the menu for our tribes of the great South West.

KambarangOctober to November – By now the rain begins to lessen, fewer cold fronts meant that Nyoongar people would gather their children and head back towards the coast for fishing season. This is also the height of wildflower season here – which meant one beautiful thing – NATIVE HONEY! J

BirakDecember to January – The heat of summer has begun!!! This is when the people would do controlled burn offs of the local bush land to assist hunters in catching some dinner and aid plants in regeneration for the coming months.

With the knowledge of the seasons and the way the people of this land lived and survived for thousands of years I thought to utilise the knowledge to affect my impact on the planet. Knowing the seasons I can plant my veggie patch and flowers when I know there will be rain, I can open my windows when I know the cooler breezes will be blowing and I know from which direction they will be coming. I plant native floras to the Nyoongar country – these plants know how to survive without me fronting a hefty water bill and they become a food source for the native birds and animals that have lived here since the beginning!

And last….most importantly and most lovingly from the heart of the Earth Fae –  I CELEBRATE our ancient Australian culture with love and respect. No matter where you are from or where you are going – the place you call home has a tribal history full of knowledge and song, story and magick, and within it you may just find a glimmer of something that you have been searching for all along.

We must all work together to take care of our home as best we can, in the ancient wisdom of Aboriginal Culture I have found ways to live in harmony with the planet I love so deeply and show love to a country that sings the song of my soul…..this wondrous culture is part of our varce and very diverse multicultural society here on Earth. It is a gift to have this knowledge and a blessing that it has survived to be shared with all. Find your tribal self….and enjoy it! <3

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